Looking back, I always doubted myself.

Will I ever be good enough?

Will I ever fit in?

Will I ever stand out?

Will people like me for ME?

I was born into a Jehovah’s Witness family—a religious cult where the conditioning ran deep. It was an environment that was incredibly disempowering to women. I was told what to wear, how to act and to be subservient to men. The male elders ran the show and free spirits like mine were not tolerated.

Growing up, I felt different, like I was being tamed. I wasn’t allowed to have an opinion that went against the teachings and I was expected to conform to a life that felt like a prison sentence. By the age of 16, I faced a life-altering decision: remain disempowered within the cult or embark on a path to freedom, cutting ties with my friends and family. I chose freedom, a value that has guided every decision I've made since.

I travelled the world, first as a Nanny and then as a Holiday Rep. I had amazing experiences but the self-doubt lingered. When I returned to the UK, I built a successful corporate career, coaching and mentoring senior leaders, speaking on big stages and managing large teams, projects and budgets. Yet, despite my achievements, I continued to struggle with self-doubt.

In my corporate career, I realised I had a natural gift for helping others step into their authentic and visible leadership, especially when they invited me to do so. But I also started to show up in ways that weren’t true to myself in order to be recognised and promoted. I didn’t trust myself and was giving my power away, which led to multiple burnouts and trips to A&E with a heart rate of 220. My wake-up call to leave that life behind.

I manifested and negotiated a payout, re-trained as a Personal Stylist at The London College of Fashion and started my own business in 2016. But three years in, I still hadn’t achieved the success I truly desired. I’d invested over $100k in coaching programmes and masterminds that taught a cookie cutter approach to self-promotion and visibility that I didn’t feel aligned to. I felt stuck—plagued by imposter syndrome, fear of judgment and a lack of belief in myself.

Then, I discovered Human Design.

My biggest breakthrough came when I learned that as a Human Design Projector, my gifts are recognised and valued when I’m invited into things. For the first time, I saw myself clearly. My potency, purpose, and bigger vision. I realised the trauma of hiding my authentic self had fed my self-doubt and confusion about who I really was. I’d been imitating others, competing with them and giving away my power.

Human Design showed me that my innate gifts, Projector wisdom and life experience made me uniquely qualified to fulfil my purpose, to guide and empower others through their own evolution. I learned to master the art of orchestrating invitations that command recognition and pave the way to success. I stopped chasing recognition and started receiving it with effortless precision.

I began to see every move I made as intentional, every step aligned with who I truly am, leading me to the success I was born to achieve. I understood that as a Projector, my power lies not in hustling but in creating space for the right invitations to come to me. This shift allowed me to embrace my role as a mastermind, where I could orchestrate my visibility and influence with clarity and purpose.

I discovered more incredible tools that empowered me to strengthen my identity, highly value myself and massively uplevel to a higher vibration. 

EFT helped me release the fear, anxiety and complexity that held me back, breaking the cycle of self-doubt. I began to validate myself and stopped hanging my self-worth on the opinions of others. I no longer took rejection personally and this newfound freedom allowed me to fall in love with myself and heal deeply.

On a trip to Venice Beach, I met my spiritual mentor and discovered Kundalini Yoga, which helped me connect with my mystical inner radiance and creative empowerment. My spiritual journey continued as I embraced my psychic abilities and the sacred transmissions I’m destined to pass on to others. My energy shifted and I became a magnet for my ideal clients, speaking engagements, collaborations, and opportunities that truly lit me up.

Now, as a Human Design Visibility Mentor, I empower women to be ICONIC leaders in the Aquarian Age. My Illuminate Method™ empowers entrepreneurs, founders, and creative change-makers to embody their Unique Human Design, break the cycle of self-doubt, and amplify their mystical inner radiance. I help them step into visible, iconic, and high-vibrational leadership.

Every person has a unique key that opens them to higher states of consciousness and this work holds the key for my clients to unlock theirs. In this sacred space, they uncover the gold hidden within, appreciate their own value, and tap into the higher frequencies of freedom, love and prosperity.

I still travel the world, working with private clients both in person and virtually, hosting workshops, online events, and global retreats. I’m a sought-after speaker on global stages, podcasts and radio shows, and I also deliver transformative leadership experiences to organisations that recognize the need for a tailored and holistic approach to developing their leaders.

As part of the collective mission to raise the vibration of the planet, I’m here to help more women fulfil their higher evolutionary potential and step into visible, authentic and iconic leadership.

This is why I support Lend With Care, a charity that helps entrepreneurial women in low-income countries to feel more empowered and lead themselves out of poverty, and Choose Love, a non-profit organisation supporting refugees & displaced people globally. I’m also a Mentor in the Santander Breakthrough Women Business Leaders’ Mentoring Programme, an initiative to help female founders scale their business to 7 figures.

It’s interesting that, as a Human Design Projector, I chose to be born into a religious cult that made me question my identity. My journey has been one of learning to elevate my self-worth and show up unapologetically as an empowered and authentic leader.

Trying to be someone else is not sustainable. True freedom comes from courageous and authentic visibility, which attracts the most incredible opportunities. My work is centred around unlocking your true potential by helping you move past self-imposed limitations and deepen your understanding of your own power.

This is not just about scaling your business; it’s about transforming how you experience yourself as a powerful and worthy business owner. It’s possible to build a business empire without believing in your own worth, but this approach can lead to burnout and dissatisfaction.

My focus is on ensuring that you not only achieve business success but also feel genuinely deserving and empowered by it. This transformation extends beyond business, influencing all areas of your life, including personal relationships.

By nurturing self-actualization, you will improve your relationships with yourself and others, creating a more holistic and fulfilling experience both professionally and personally.

I’m so excited to share this powerful and deep work with you and show you that being more visible can be a really delicious experience. But at its core, it doesn’t really matter what you do, it only matters how you do it.

• Iconic ~ a person who is widely admired especially for having great influence or significance in a particular sphere.

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